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Librarian Reminds Us: Biblical Christianity Not Too Keen on Marriage

Theology librarian Kimberly Abrams writes to us today with a rejoinder for those proclaiming how important marriage is to Christianity. Read 1 Corinthians 7, she asks. In his letter, the single and chaste apostle Paul declares:

I would that all men were even as I myself. I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry to marry than to burn….

Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful. I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be. Art thou bound unto a wife? Seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? Seek not a wife. But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.

… the fashion of this world passeth away. But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: but he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.

But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry. Nevertheless he that standeth steadfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well. So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.

Abrams notes regarding Paul’s letter:

The arrogance and superiority of those Christians that believe a marriage based on Christianity is superior should know that their faith views them as lesser than those that do not have sex. Christianity is ambivalent about marriage because it is ambivalent about sex. Sex within marriage is not sinful, but is not advocated.

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