“Oh, we’re not like that anymore,” people from the South keep on telling the rest of us. But then, they keep on acting like that, proving that yes, the South is still like that.

southern doofuses banning equal marriage rightsA generation ago, the Southerners were shouting and screaming that it was God’s will to have laws that outlawed people of African ancestry from getting married to people of European ancestry. Yesterday, Southerners passed a law creating an amendment to the state constitution of North Carolina declaring that only heterosexual couples can get married.

It was an act of defiance against the Constitution of the United States, which bans inequality under the law. The Civil War settled, some time ago, that state constitutions don’t have the right to overrule the national Constitution. But then, maybe the voters of North Carolina never learned about that in school. After all, the South does have the worst educational test scores in the nation.

Oh, I know that’s a mean thing to say, but it’s true. We’re all supposed to hold our tongues and not make fun of the backwards idiocy of the South. We’re supposed to be patient as they fly their Confederate flags, diphthong their way through life, and elect nasty, corrupt politicians into Congress.

When Southerners go and pass laws like North Carolina did yesterday, though, I don’t see much reason to be nice. The fact is, the South is holding the rest of the nation back.

Nationally, the majority of Americans support equal marriage rights for all American couples, whether they’re heterosexual or homosexual. Practically everywhere outside the South, it’s an overwhelming majority of Americans that supports marriage equality.

Just as they were slow to get the message with slavery, it’s the people in the South who are the last people in the country to grasp the idea that making it illegal for large numbers of people to get married does not make for a stable society.

Southerners don’t like to be made fun of for their nasty little regional culture, but then they go ahead and confirm the worst ideas that people have about them, engaging in loud public acts of cruel stupidity. It’s time that the rest of the nation speaks clearly and slowly to the South, so that it can understand: IF – YOU – DON’T – WANT – US – TO – MAKE – FUN – OF – YOU – THEN – STOP – ACTING – LIKE – IGNORANT – YAHOOS.

As the Washington D.C. City Council prepares to pass legislation guaranteeing marriage equality for all couples in the district, regardless of sexual orientation, the Catholic Church is coming down hard on the effort, using its tax-exempt organizational power to launch a multipronged effort to block the legislation.

silent sinIn response to the Catholic anti-equality campaign, a new web site, ChurchOuting, has been created to intimidate Catholic priests in the D.C. area. The site promises to identify priests who are homosexual, or who are having heterosexual affairs, unless the priests sign a Declaration of Religious Support for Marriage Equality. The declaration has already been signed by 194 D.C. clergy.

The ChurchOuting web site characterizes priests hide their homosexual identity as leading “a life of fear”. Yet, the ChurchOuting campaign is using this fear in order to pressure priests to promote its pro-equality agenda.

Is this approach ethical?

Got the munchies? Munch on these results from two 2009 ballot question votes in the state of Maine. One ballot question took away the marriage rights of gay and lesbian people, and the other ballot question granted the right of sick people to smoke marijuana as medicine.

In Androscoggin County, 60% of voters decided to repeal the freedom of gay and lesbian couples to get married. In the same county, 58% of voters decided to give people the freedom to smoke pot.

In Franklin County, 59% of voters took away the right of same-sex couples to get married, but 59% of voters decided to protect the right to take hits of weed.

In Kennebec County, 57% of voters voted away equal protection under law for same-sex Mainers. 54% voted in equal access to medical marijuana.

In Lincoln County, 52% outlawed marriage and 62% legalized bong hits.

In Oxford County, 59% voted against same-sex marriage freedoms but 59% voted for same-day drug freedoms.

In Penobscot County, 59% cast ballots that cast gay and lesbian Mainers onto a lower level of personhood, while 51% cast ballots legalizing intoxicants to cast themselves onto a higher level of astral consciousness.

Sagadahoc County: 51% against marriage freedom, 62% for marijuana freedom.

Waldo County: 54% against letting people make a higher commitment to one another, 56% for the freedom to get high.

Washington County: 65% against marrying Jane, 51% for Mary Jane.

In these communities, Mainers have made their priorities clear: by all means, they want the right to light up a joint. But let some queers get married? Hell, no!

Freedom for me but not for thee: that’s the theme of the Maine vote of 2009.

Where are you welcome? Where are you not welcome?

If you’re in a gay or lesbian couple, you know by now that a narrow majority of Mainers has decided you don’t deserve the basic respect afforded to people in the United States of America: the legal respect of equality. On the bright side, a very large minority of Mainers vehemently disagrees.

The homophobic majority and the gay-friendly minority are not evenly dispersed in Maine. There are many communities in which gay and lesbian couples aren’t just tolerated; they’re embraced. In other places, you can’t even hold hands with someone of the same sex without getting angry, threatening stares… or worse. If you’re thinking of coming to Maine for a visit, it makes sense for you to know what the various chambers of commerce won’t tell you — whether you’ll be welcomed or shunned in a particular town in Maine. How the vote came down on November 3, 2009 in a town in Maine is a pretty good indicator of the reception you’ll get.

Below is a map of Cumberland County, Maine, the county featuring the city of Portland, the hub of Maine’s population. I’ve gathered election results for the towns within it and color coded them: blue being the most supportive of same-sex marriage, green being moderately supportive, pink standing in opposition to marriage equality and yellow being reserved for those towns that rejected gay people getting married in a landslide.

Vote on Same-Sex Marriage Equality in Cumberland County, Maine, November 3 2009, Color Coded by Town

Overwhelmingly, the people of the town of Baldwin, Maine have declared that they couldn’t care less about equal rights for gay and lesbian people. Similarly, the people of Frye Island (who incorporated as a way of avoiding paying taxes for schools) have decided that gay and lesbian people don’t deserve fully equal rights due to all Americans since the passage of the 14th Amendment. Generally, inland Cumberland county couldn’t give a hoot about gay and lesbian rights; you shouldn’t expect a big and friendly welcome if you decide to make a visit there. Frozen faces are about the best you can expect.

If you’re looking for a place to visit in Cumberland County, Maine that is more welcoming to gay and lesbian couples, consider the coast; from Cape Elizabeth to Portland through Falmouth, Cumberland, Yarmouth, Freeport up to Brunswick you’ll find communities that strongly embraced the cause of marriage equality on Election Day 2009. These places are more cosmopolitan, more open-minded, and have vibrant resident communities of gay and lesbian Mainers who will welcome you with open arms.

Boy oh boy, you can say this for the anti-gay forces seeking to overturn Maine’s same-sex marriage law: when they go in for something, they don’t do it by halves.

You may remember that in September of 2009, an anti-gay calling itself “Stand for Marriage Maine” held what they called a “rally” in the city of Augusta to promote taking away same-sex marriage rights in the state of Maine. But oddly enough, the “rally” was closed. Only very particular people were invited, and Mainers who weren’t invited were shut out. Even journalists were excluded from the secret proceedings.

By contrast, in case you were wondering, NO on 1 / Protect Maine Equality has held a series of meetings across the state to which everyone, Mainers and non-Mainers, citizens and journalists, everyone has been welcome to attend.

Well, here’s an update on that strange “Stand for Marriage Maine” “rally.” I put both “Stand for Marriage Maine” and “rally” in quotes, because campaign finance reports released yesterday reveal something rather odd about who paid for the rally. Guess who cut the check to rent the space?

Campaign Finance Report Reveals: Family Research Council of Washington, DC paid to rent the space for the Augusta Rally against Same-Sex Marriage

That’s right: the Christian fundamentalist Family Research Council of Washington, DC picked up the tab. (Source: Maine Campaign Finance Database)

When anti-gay forces close the doors of their meetings to Mainers, and when those meetings are funded from Washington, DC, it sure doesn’t look like an indigenous effort. In Maine, where you can have lived in a town for 20 years and still be referred to as “from away,” that sort of thing especially matters.

“I’ve called on Congress to repeal the so-called DOMA.”

– President Barack Obama, just now, declaring for the first time in his presidency a clear inclination to oppose the Defense of Marriage Act.

Did that Peace Prize kick President Obama out of his careful, complacent crouch?

Discuss.

We Need Not Think Alike to Love Alike Francis David quotation, First Universalist Church of Auburn, Maine“We need not think alike to love alike.” This quotation of Francis David appeared on the wall of the First Universalist Church in Auburn, Maine where the organization called Vote No on 1 / Protect Maine Equality held one of five “community conversations” this week.

Betsy Smith, Executive Director of Equality Maine and Executive Committee member of the NO on 1 / Protect Maine Equality campaign, explained the current state of the battle over Ballot Question 1, a referendum in which a “Yes” vote revokes the right of same-sex couples to get married. A transcript:

Let’s talk about how we got here. I think most of you know that this spring Maine made history by being the first state in the country to pass a marriage bill through the legislature and have it signed by the governor. Give yourselves a round of applause. But what we are most proud of, though, is how we won. This victory was the result of tens of thousands of Mainers who became involved in the movement for marriage equality in Maine. It was truly an example of where the people led and the leaders followed. Voter and political experts have called it the best, most well executed legislative campaign in Maine’s history.

Betsy Smith, Executive Director of Equality Maine, in Auburn First Universalist ChurchBut all the accolades won’t matter if we don’t come together and win in November. We can do this. We cannot let this historic win go to waste. Think of the public hearing and the Judiciary Committee vote and the House vote and the Senate vote. All of it will be for nothing if we don’t win in November. We must carry our historic win all the way through to November 3rd to another historic win: winning marriage at the ballot box. We can do this.

So let’s talk about what this campaign looks like. We are NO on 1 / Protect Maine Equality. We have 5 offices around the state: Portland, Bangor, Lewiston, Ogunquit and Hallowell. We have a campaign staff of 30. That is unprecedented for an LGBT campaign in Maine. Of those 30 staff, 18 are field organizers. That will tell you a little something about how we are going to win this campaign.

We have a team of people raising money from donors all across the state, and we also have a top-notch team of consultants for polling, TV, mail consultants. And finally, we have you: our local partners on the ground who are helping to win this campaign every single day.

Now of course we’d rather not be in a campaign, but our opponents are working very hard to pass this people’s veto. They call themselves “Stand for Marriage Maine,” and they are an umbrella organization made up of 3 main players:

* The Catholic Diocese. Although the Catholic leadership has been very vocal in this campaign, it is very important to distinguish between the church hierarchy and individual parishoners. We have many Catholic supporters, and in fact there’s a group in Maine called Catholics for Marriage Equality.

* National Organization for Marriage. This is a national anti-equality group that has been involved in many of these campaigns around the country.

* Third, we have Schubert Flint, which is a California-based PR firm that ran Proposition 8 last year, which stripped away the right of gay and lesbian couples to marry in California. And they are coming to Maine to try and do it again.

So there is a lot of national attention on this campaign, and it’s not by accident. Our opponents have called Maine “Ground Zero” in the fight over marriage. They know that we have never won marriage at the ballot box, so they will do anything to win this campaign. They will stop at nothing to win this campaign, and that is why we are in the fight of our lives.

Being in the fight of our lives, we are going to have to work harder, be more strategic, give more and do more than we have ever done before.

Earlier this week, Rep. Jerrold Nadler introduced H.R. 3567, the Respect for Marriage Act of 2009. This bill, if passed, would repeal the Defense Of Marriage Act (DOMA), a piece of legislation enacted in the 1990s revoking the presumption that same-sex marriages carried out in one state would be recognized in other states or by the federal government. Under the “Full Faith and Credit” clause of the Constitution, opposite-sex marriages still do carry this presumption of recognition, creating 14th Amendment difficulties of unequal protection under law. H.R. 3567 would resolve unequal protection by granting the presumption of recognition for all marriages at the federal and state level.

80 members of the House of Representatives are current members of the House LGBT Equality Caucus. Within this group, support for DOMA repeal is not unanimous. The following are members of the LGBT Equality Caucus who have not added their cosponsorship to Nadler’s bill:

Rep. Timothy Bishop. Contact Phone: 631-696-6500
Rep. Andre Carson. Contact Phone: 317-283-6516
Rep. Joseph Crowley. Contact Phone: 718-320-2314
Rep. Peter DeFazio. Contact Phone: 541-440-3523
Rep. Barney Frank. Contact Phone: 508-999-6462
Rep. Charles Gonzalez. Contact Phone: 210-472-6195
Rep. Phil Hare. Contact Phone: 309-793-5760
Rep. Sheila Jackson-Lee. Contact Phone: 713-227-7740
Rep. Eddie Bernice Johnson. Contact Phone: 214-922-8885
Rep. Carolyn McCarthy. Contact Phone: 516-739-3008
Rep. Patrick Murphy. Contact Phone: 215-826-1963
Rep. Bill Pascrell. Contact Phone: 973-523-5152
Rep. Gary Peters. Contact Phone: 248-273-4227
Rep. Ileana Ros-Lehtinen. Contact Phone: 305-668-2285
Rep. Betty Sutton. Contact Phone: 330-865-8450

If the repeal of DOMA is important to you and you see your member of Congress on this list, consider placing a call with your pointed questions and clear request for cosponsorship of H.R. 3567.